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laker1963:The fact that she stayed, went to court and even had the smoker moved from their home (if they wanted to continue to smoke) tells me that this is about her rights over the collective rights of the other tenants.
kuzi16:thanks for fixing that.... it was a ton of bold... ha! i guess his hands had to have been tied at some point. ... though they shouldnt have been.
laker1963: kuzi16:thanks for fixing that.... it was a ton of bold... ha! i guess his hands had to have been tied at some point. ... though they shouldnt have been.You know what? This brings up a good point about our discussions.I think after some reflection that I know why sometimes we seem so opposed to each other's positions on some things.When I talk with my son, who is a little younger then you Kuzi, I find that he speaks from a position of the way things aught to be while I speak from the position of the way I see things as the are now in the world.It isn't that I disagree with his beliefs or feelings on a certain matter. It's just that from our different perspectives it can appear that way. Once we have discussed the issues and smooth over the contentious issues, we usually find that we believe pretty much the same things, but we approach the solution to these things differently.In this case where you see this as a owner's rights thing, (AND i AGREE IT SHOULD BE) I tended to focus on the womans' rights being given priority over the collective rights of the other tenants and the building owner.We don't disagree, but our perspectives and our method of explaining our positions can seem to be disagreement. I wonder how often this happens in other discussions we have, as well?Oh yeah and that formatting thing is a pain. I wish someone would start a thread in which people who know how to format post' could leave little pointers to those of us who can't do it to save our lives ! :)
laker1963: I wish someone would start a thread in which people who know how to format post' could leave little pointers to those of us who can't do it to save our lives ! :)
kuzi16: laker1963: kuzi16:thanks for fixing that.... it was a ton of bold... ha! i guess his hands had to have been tied at some point. ... though they shouldnt have been.You know what? This brings up a good point about our discussions.I think after some reflection that I know why sometimes we seem so opposed to each other's positions on some things.When I talk with my son, who is a little younger then you Kuzi, I find that he speaks from a position of the way things aught to be while I speak from the position of the way I see things as the are now in the world.It isn't that I disagree with his beliefs or feelings on a certain matter. It's just that from our different perspectives it can appear that way. Once we have discussed the issues and smooth over the contentious issues, we usually find that we believe pretty much the same things, but we approach the solution to these things differently.In this case where you see this as a owner's rights thing, (AND i AGREE IT SHOULD BE) I tended to focus on the womans' rights being given priority over the collective rights of the other tenants and the building owner.We don't disagree, but our perspectives and our method of explaining our positions can seem to be disagreement. I wonder how often this happens in other discussions we have, as well?Oh yeah and that formatting thing is a pain. I wish someone would start a thread in which people who know how to format post' could leave little pointers to those of us who can't do it to save our lives ! :)i can see this point. i DO tend to view societal issues as how they should be... i do know that things are not perfect. i look at equal individual rights as a perfection that will never be realized but should always be worked for. i do wholly believe that man should be free to do as they see fit to run their lives so long as their actions do not violate the right of others to run their lives they way they see fit. the only roll of the government in this perfect scenario is for the government to uphold those individual rights and never violate the rights of anyone, no matter how small the minority.
kuzi16:no no... thank you. wanna fight about it? !?!?
laker1963: kuzi16:no no... thank you. wanna fight about it? !?!?I thought you weren't a fighter? So YES I wanna fight about it !LMAO
kuzi16:I hope i never win the Nobel Peace Prize.
kuzi16: kuzi16:I hope i never win the Nobel Peace Prize....not that i have to worry about getting nominated or anything...
Matt Marvel: kuzi16: kuzi16:I hope i never win the Nobel Peace Prize....not that i have to worry about getting nominated or anything... I don't know, it looks like they'll take just about anybody these days. Don't be so sure about that, lol.
kuzi16: Matt Marvel: kuzi16: kuzi16:I hope i never win the Nobel Peace Prize....not that i have to worry about getting nominated or anything... I don't know, it looks like they'll take just about anybody these days. Don't be so sure about that, lol.no.. i dont have the right qualifications. i do not promote a socialist/fascist agenda I do not suck up to dominating dictators like Chavez.i dont want to force people to "go green" im not considering not funding my army that is in a country where if the military loses an oppressive Islamo-fascist group will move in, kill every one it doesnt like and force its religious beliefs on everyone while simultaneously destroying anything from other religions so no... i will never be nominated for a peace prize. ...im not peaceful enough.